Or is it vice versa?
I have begun to think about this after seeing stats that show women initiate divorce 90% of the time. I have also seen quotes like ""Marry a man who loves you more than you love him." said by women. Its seems to me the general consensus among women is that it's better if the man loves her more deeply than vice versa.
And if one thinks about relationships in general and how they are started it's usually the man who initiates contact, does the "pursuing", establishes a relationship, proposes etc etc. Its usually the man who does romantic gestures for the woman.
And also, this might be a silly example but in songs, books, poetry and so on. It's usually the woman who is the centre of attention and the one who recieves love. Male singers often sing about a particular woman and how they love her and stuff like that. Female singers usually sing about themselves, they rarely focus on the guy and if they do it's in a negative way.
It's just seems to me like men do the loving and women love to get loved.
On the other hands it's usually said that women are more nurturing and caring. And that they are usually the ones who get too attached and so on. But I don't know... to me it looks like the other way around when I look at relationship dynamics.
What do you think?
I have begun to think about this after seeing stats that show women initiate divorce 90% of the time. I have also seen quotes like ""Marry a man who loves you more than you love him." said by women. Its seems to me the general consensus among women is that it's better if the man loves her more deeply than vice versa.
And if one thinks about relationships in general and how they are started it's usually the man who initiates contact, does the "pursuing", establishes a relationship, proposes etc etc. Its usually the man who does romantic gestures for the woman.
And also, this might be a silly example but in songs, books, poetry and so on. It's usually the woman who is the centre of attention and the one who recieves love. Male singers often sing about a particular woman and how they love her and stuff like that. Female singers usually sing about themselves, they rarely focus on the guy and if they do it's in a negative way.
It's just seems to me like men do the loving and women love to get loved.
On the other hands it's usually said that women are more nurturing and caring. And that they are usually the ones who get too attached and so on. But I don't know... to me it looks like the other way around when I look at relationship dynamics.
What do you think?
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