Exploring various interpretations of the BETA MALE - GOOD or all P whipped pathetic?

When I 1st landed on TAM.. many threads on becoming more ALPHA.... but I noticed in a short time there were 2 different interpretations on what is...or it's ROLE, if any in a man's life...some feel it is ALL BAD, needs killed.. other feel it has it's GOOD ...and is NEEDED for a "well balanced" man...

The ALL PATHETIC / burn Beta at the stake view here >> Who Is the Beta Male? ...she goes on to say..

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BETA's display : unstable energy, passive tendencies, childish reasoning,they ignore their responsibilities to grow, fail to master their emotions/ destiny...they are closed to learning, their reasoning skills are stuck in grade school, they see themselves as Victims, they lack lack patience, integrity and self-control ...they seek to escape, ignore or evade reality, to win approval at any cost, seeks dishonest advantages..

Please notice the Pu**y whipped chart on Suzie's page for further characteristics contrasting the Winning ALPHA vs BETA also with "love women & sex" and "Life views"

WOW.. I am thinking... DAAMMNNNNN ... seems to me her write up is more for those severely caught in "Nice Guy syndrome" covered in Glover's No More Mr Nice Guy ... but really.. can anyone be THAT BAD!!!

Now here is the funny part (or embarrassing! Husband needs to do this to me - )...I have went on about HIM, referring to him as "tipped BETA" for as long as I have been posting here..... But I surely wasn't going by that woman's interpretation I'll tell you !!

I was going more by what Athol Kay has written....the author of The Married Man Sex Life Primer ...he was member when I arrived ....reading his posts...he has explained how the term has been hi-jacked by "Pick up artist" Blog writers running it into the ground as everything weak, insecure & worthless... he explained how men need a healthy balance of BOTH Alpha and Beta for a woman to be attracted, then feel safe with him...

His explaining the differences like this:

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The Alpha Traits are those associated with classic "manly man" strengths. Power, dominance, physical ability, bravery, wealth, cool and confidence. Oh and good genes. These are the things that attract women and turn them on sexually. The Alpha Traits are linked to the dopamine response in women. Alpha = attraction building = Dopamine = In Love = Excitement

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The Beta Traits are those associated with the strengths of being a nice guy / "family man". Kindness, being a good listener, the ability to help with the children, dependability, thoughtfulness, compassion and patience. These all create a sense of comfort and safety for the woman, and relax her because she feels that if she became pregnant, the Beta Trait male isn't going to abandon her and the baby. Beta = comfort building = Oxytocin / Vasopressin = Pair Bond = Calm Enjoyment"

So Alpha Traits create attraction and that "in love" feeling, and Beta Traits create the pair bond and makes her feel relaxed enough to have sex. You need a balance of both Alpha and Beta in a marriage to maximize her desire to have sex with you.....

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