I dropped the bomb last night, that I want a divorce because DW doesn't want kids and I do, and I've spent some 20 hours since thinking how stupid and selfish a decision that was.
That's common, right? The first emotions that bubble up after actually making the statement "I think we're done" are regret, self-doubt, maybe a decent amount of self-loathing, fear, etc.? How long does this last, and how do I discern between fear of change and legitimate doubt about whether this was the right decision?
I'm not a very emotive person, but this hurts. Severely.
That's common, right? The first emotions that bubble up after actually making the statement "I think we're done" are regret, self-doubt, maybe a decent amount of self-loathing, fear, etc.? How long does this last, and how do I discern between fear of change and legitimate doubt about whether this was the right decision?
I'm not a very emotive person, but this hurts. Severely.
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