I read a book following my divorce - "Divorce and New Beginnings." It was thee one and only one I read. . .digested it, used 10-20% of it, whatever etc.
It gave a warning and forgive me if I am off by the statistics a bit, b/c this is from memory (I donated it to the library).
Something like 1 in 4 or 1 in 5 people 10 years following a divorce are still reeling emotionally from it. (I think men particularly reel financially from it until emancipation so that's a different subject). About the same number re-marry the ex. I remember startled with how many people are there.
Reading some of the posts in other threads. . .well, no one in particular but I feel like a lot of you out there are still carrying hurt and pain. (maybe guilty as charged too. . .I am not trying to sound preachy).
Just be careful about that and a little (but overly much) self-analysis on that to take corrective action.
Even if you were a lot at fault, you still deserve to move on and have a happy life.
It gave a warning and forgive me if I am off by the statistics a bit, b/c this is from memory (I donated it to the library).
Something like 1 in 4 or 1 in 5 people 10 years following a divorce are still reeling emotionally from it. (I think men particularly reel financially from it until emancipation so that's a different subject). About the same number re-marry the ex. I remember startled with how many people are there.
Reading some of the posts in other threads. . .well, no one in particular but I feel like a lot of you out there are still carrying hurt and pain. (maybe guilty as charged too. . .I am not trying to sound preachy).
Just be careful about that and a little (but overly much) self-analysis on that to take corrective action.
Even if you were a lot at fault, you still deserve to move on and have a happy life.
Put the internet to work for you.
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