My husband and I have been together 11 years. I have a 13yr old, which he has raised as his own since he was 2. We have a 10 year old and twins that are 5. His sister has always interfered and caused problems. She ruined both of my baby showers by showing up drunk. She has always had a problem with me. But 3 1/2 years ago we moved closer to his family so they could get closer to the kids too. Needless to say they seen my kids less. Then she only wanted to invite our 10yr old places or to stay. She had many excuses of why she didnt invite my oldest and the twins. But I wasnt standing for it. I have not spoke to her in a year because of it and forbid any of my kids to go anywhere. My husband will not stand up for me. She told everybody in the town we moved to I was the "*****" that trapped her brother. After many other issues too. He would not let me control finances & budget to try to get things straightened out instead of living in stress of shut off noti ces and having no money. I thought was a mutual decision to separate and I moved back to my hometown with our kids 3 hours away. Thinking we could fix our issues and he could move here. I am refusing to move back near his family because he does not stand up for me and they have no respect for me or my kids. We werent separated a week and my sister in law set him up at a bar with her friend. I KNOW HE IS A BIG BOY AND ITS HIS FAULT TOO. but really! She is always interfering. Before I quit speaking to her a year ago, she never talked to him. Now she thinks she needs to everyday. Its always been drama with her and things I didn't agree with 4 years ago were wrong and he never stood up for me. Now since she is "grown up", stopped drinking, she is worse. She has started drinking again. But I have completely refused to talk to her. She hurt my kids feelings and cuz I stood up for my kids & myself nobody in his family shows me any respect. I am confused and not sure if its even wor th trying to fix. The past few years I've developed so much resentment and angry over the way he kisses her ass and doesnt stand up for me. He does work and is a very involved daddy. But he doesnt think he needs to stand up for me. Not to mention all the added stress from bills just not being paid, money is there if it was budgeted, he just doesn't think they are a priority. I feel if he wants to work on anything he needs to move where I did. 3 hours away from his family. Please help I really need feedback. What people on the outside think!!!
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