I have an abnormally small penis; will I ever be able to find a girlfriend?

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I have an abnormally small penis; will I ever be able to find a girlfriend?

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My penis is well below average size, probably too small to satisfy most women sexually. As I strongly suspect people are going to ask me precisely how small, I might as well just get it out of the way and tell you from the beginning

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It's 3 inches long and 2.5 inches in circumference when erect (this is approximately the same size as a regular tampon)

. I'm quite predictably very self-conscious about it, which is not helped by the fact that the few sexual expereinces I've had have all been negative. This is despite the fact that I've deliberately avoided casual relationships and have waited until I felt that the girls I been with cared about me enough not to make a big deal about it.

Unfortunately, it hasn't worked out as I'd hoped: the first girl I ever slept with was initially quite sweet and understanding about it, but she ended our relationship just a week after we had sex, and I later found out that she had taken a photo of my penis with her phone whilst I slept and sent it to some of her friends. The most recent of the girls I've been with couldn't stop herself from giggling when she first saw it, even though I had warned her in advance that I was small down there. I couldn't stand the humiliation, so I left, and haven't seen her since (this was about 2 weeks ago). She has sent several messages apologising and asking for another chance, but I've not replied because I cannot bring myself to face her.

My self-esteem is now non-existent and I can't imagine ever putting myself in a position of vulnerabilty ever again. The thing is though, that relationships, love and family are by far the most important things in life for me. There is nothing I want more than to have a long term girlfriend to spend time, make memories and, eventually, start a family with. But all of this just seems completely impossible to me now, and I find myself asking the question: if eveything that's most important and meaningful to me is forever going to be out of reach then what's the point in continuing with life at all. It would spare me so much misery and loneliness if it were to end now.

I don't know what I'm hoping to gain from posting this thread, I know there's absolutely nothing anybody on a student forum can say or do to help me, I'm just grasping at straws I guess.

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