Hello there,
I always post my questions on here as I am almost clueless when it comes to relationships . I grew up in women only environment and in some way I am still a girl and not a woman.
I posted on here before regarding my last very brief relationship with my friend who just wanted to have sex . He wasn't a friend as he knew I was going through a lot but cut contact with me without explanation . I want to vomit when I remember him and I almost thought I should reconsider my sexuality . I thought I should go to a lesbian event .
Anyhow, I started going to the gym instead and working on me and my low self esteem. I am in IC as well and all seems good . My personal trainer is same age as me . He is 25 and I am 26. When I first met him ,he told me that whenever I need help doing the exercises I can ask him anytime for free . I thought he was trying to be nice but never thought I would ask him. Today he said we can do cardio together for free next Saturday.
I am not sure be I think he is in a relationship .
My question .....is he just being nice or is there something more I should be careful about? If he has a gf for sure is this bad? On my part and his part?
I don't want to get involved with anyone at the moment as I have some mental health issues and relationships with guys seem to mess me up. Thank you.
I always post my questions on here as I am almost clueless when it comes to relationships . I grew up in women only environment and in some way I am still a girl and not a woman.
I posted on here before regarding my last very brief relationship with my friend who just wanted to have sex . He wasn't a friend as he knew I was going through a lot but cut contact with me without explanation . I want to vomit when I remember him and I almost thought I should reconsider my sexuality . I thought I should go to a lesbian event .
Anyhow, I started going to the gym instead and working on me and my low self esteem. I am in IC as well and all seems good . My personal trainer is same age as me . He is 25 and I am 26. When I first met him ,he told me that whenever I need help doing the exercises I can ask him anytime for free . I thought he was trying to be nice but never thought I would ask him. Today he said we can do cardio together for free next Saturday.
I am not sure be I think he is in a relationship .
My question .....is he just being nice or is there something more I should be careful about? If he has a gf for sure is this bad? On my part and his part?
I don't want to get involved with anyone at the moment as I have some mental health issues and relationships with guys seem to mess me up. Thank you.
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