Hello, in advance- tldr cliffs at bottom
Backstory-
Met my wife in 07 at a camp we worked at. We were dating and hooking up for the summer. We lived in different states and each moved back home after the summer. We stayed in touch, she had a boyfriend (we were broken up this is fine).
In 08 I moved to be closer to her and we got back together, no she didn't leave her bf for me they had split before I moved.
We dated in 08, and got engaged in early 09 and then in 09 bought a house together in august or so.
In October she was hanging out with another guy, but denies any sexual activity- if nothing else it was an emotional relationship for a few weeks. In nov 09 we found out she was pregnant and married in November 09. Our daughter was born in July of 10. Things were good for most of the year and then I returned to school in the summer of 11. She cheated on me with a mutual acquaintance, and I found the messages between them after which she eventually admitted.
She claimed to cut it off but did occasionally still write to him. I continued working and going to school. In November or December 2011 she began dating another guy and was with him (without me knowing) for about 8 months. This time I found videos of them, and only then did she admit. In September 2012 she essentially cheated on him/me with two guys at a strip club, and again denied until I showed her the video. Then claimed she was drunk.
She eventually stopped talking to her then bf and I found a vid of her naked in a shower with another guy, she said it was just dancing.
Now in 2014, she had moved out and I filed for divorce. I am finished with school in a few weeks. And now after being apart for about 5 months, still talking and divorce not finalized, she is begging for me back.
She says she will be perfect and open about anything and will be the "woman I deserve."
She has had male friends, who I've heard through others have slept with her but she denies this, and she has recently sent nude pics to at least one guy but claims it was accidental.
Cliffs: married since 09, 3 yr old daughter, wife's cheated with multiple guys and only admits when it's proven. Now is begging for me back.
At what point do I walk away? Or is there a reason to try again?
Can a person change that much?
Backstory-
Met my wife in 07 at a camp we worked at. We were dating and hooking up for the summer. We lived in different states and each moved back home after the summer. We stayed in touch, she had a boyfriend (we were broken up this is fine).
In 08 I moved to be closer to her and we got back together, no she didn't leave her bf for me they had split before I moved.
We dated in 08, and got engaged in early 09 and then in 09 bought a house together in august or so.
In October she was hanging out with another guy, but denies any sexual activity- if nothing else it was an emotional relationship for a few weeks. In nov 09 we found out she was pregnant and married in November 09. Our daughter was born in July of 10. Things were good for most of the year and then I returned to school in the summer of 11. She cheated on me with a mutual acquaintance, and I found the messages between them after which she eventually admitted.
She claimed to cut it off but did occasionally still write to him. I continued working and going to school. In November or December 2011 she began dating another guy and was with him (without me knowing) for about 8 months. This time I found videos of them, and only then did she admit. In September 2012 she essentially cheated on him/me with two guys at a strip club, and again denied until I showed her the video. Then claimed she was drunk.
She eventually stopped talking to her then bf and I found a vid of her naked in a shower with another guy, she said it was just dancing.
Now in 2014, she had moved out and I filed for divorce. I am finished with school in a few weeks. And now after being apart for about 5 months, still talking and divorce not finalized, she is begging for me back.
She says she will be perfect and open about anything and will be the "woman I deserve."
She has had male friends, who I've heard through others have slept with her but she denies this, and she has recently sent nude pics to at least one guy but claims it was accidental.
Cliffs: married since 09, 3 yr old daughter, wife's cheated with multiple guys and only admits when it's proven. Now is begging for me back.
At what point do I walk away? Or is there a reason to try again?
Can a person change that much?
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