I'm in love with my friend and I don't know how to go about this, (she's a girl, I'm a guy and the attraction is there, I think it is, we live together and always see her checking me out when I'm topless, and I'm defo attracted to her) we're both single as well.
Interest wise however we do not have much in common, well actually we both read the news, keep up with current affairs, and can talk about loads of stuff like this, like intellectual stuff, but it all always ends up being serious conversations, the music I'm into, she isn't into, she doesn't watch movies or any of the TV shows I watch, she watches the random show on iplayer but that's about it. We can go to the pub and talk for ages but I never feel that idk sort of connection interest wise? I always feel a sort of burden to keep the conversation alive, I do love her, I love who she is as a person, I love what she stands for but I just feel like there's something missing and if I do tell her how I feel and something does happen and it doesn't work then I may lose one of my best friends..
At the same time I really want to know how she feels about me, I've said that 'I love her' while being under the influence of drugs but that was defo in a more friendship way, and that's how it was received as well. I've been thinking of just telling her that I am in love with her the next time we're under the same influence and that way I guess in a way I'll no what she honestly feels in her heart
So there really are two issues here, I'm in love with someone who has little in common with me interest wise, and whether or not I should even tell her that I'm in love with her because of the first issue?
Interest wise however we do not have much in common, well actually we both read the news, keep up with current affairs, and can talk about loads of stuff like this, like intellectual stuff, but it all always ends up being serious conversations, the music I'm into, she isn't into, she doesn't watch movies or any of the TV shows I watch, she watches the random show on iplayer but that's about it. We can go to the pub and talk for ages but I never feel that idk sort of connection interest wise? I always feel a sort of burden to keep the conversation alive, I do love her, I love who she is as a person, I love what she stands for but I just feel like there's something missing and if I do tell her how I feel and something does happen and it doesn't work then I may lose one of my best friends..
At the same time I really want to know how she feels about me, I've said that 'I love her' while being under the influence of drugs but that was defo in a more friendship way, and that's how it was received as well. I've been thinking of just telling her that I am in love with her the next time we're under the same influence and that way I guess in a way I'll no what she honestly feels in her heart
So there really are two issues here, I'm in love with someone who has little in common with me interest wise, and whether or not I should even tell her that I'm in love with her because of the first issue?
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