My husband decided to have a fling at a conference in March. The OW is married too and they were going to have a what happens at the conference stays at the conference sort of thing. Only when they came home she booted her husband and pressured mine to leave his family.
He's completely in the affair fog. I can't reach him anymore. I do have hopes of reconciliation if I can just hold out.
He told me he wasn't going to file for divorce but then he filed. I went to a lawyer today and I want to contest his shared custody agreement.
He wants 50% of the time with my son at the OW's apartment. She has a biting Chihuahua and honestly they've been together six weeks now. This isn't been proven to be a stable and long-lasting relationship.
Tonight he was going to come over for a family dinner and talk about fun things. Just have a good night. But after I offered him two dinner nights a week and 8am to 8pm every other Saturday and Sunday he decided not to come and is cutting off all contact with me.
He just left the day before Easter. I know it can take a long time to come out of the affair fog but I'm losing hope every day.
It's not jealousy keeping me from letting my son stay overnight. My son is very ritualistic with his routines. He needs stability.
Am I doing the right thing? He seems to have all the characteristics of the affair fog. Am I deluding myself? Should I be easier on him with this? I feel like i need to protect my family.
He's completely in the affair fog. I can't reach him anymore. I do have hopes of reconciliation if I can just hold out.
He told me he wasn't going to file for divorce but then he filed. I went to a lawyer today and I want to contest his shared custody agreement.
He wants 50% of the time with my son at the OW's apartment. She has a biting Chihuahua and honestly they've been together six weeks now. This isn't been proven to be a stable and long-lasting relationship.
Tonight he was going to come over for a family dinner and talk about fun things. Just have a good night. But after I offered him two dinner nights a week and 8am to 8pm every other Saturday and Sunday he decided not to come and is cutting off all contact with me.
He just left the day before Easter. I know it can take a long time to come out of the affair fog but I'm losing hope every day.
It's not jealousy keeping me from letting my son stay overnight. My son is very ritualistic with his routines. He needs stability.
Am I doing the right thing? He seems to have all the characteristics of the affair fog. Am I deluding myself? Should I be easier on him with this? I feel like i need to protect my family.
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