Hello All!
To make the story short, my wife had a relationship with one of her school classmates for a few months and had sex with him at least one time (from what she says) drunk after the graduation party. She told me and I did not find out from someone else. Well I am 9-10 months from D day and have gone through the mixed stages. For the last few months I have been feeling better but could not stop thinking about 'IT'. I started feeling like I was ugly ext... not worth enough and so on. About 3 months in I could tell my wife started to really feel bad about it and was trying hard to get things back. We have one child that is 7. I tried hard too, we went on trips, spent time together more ext. I felt like maybe I could get passed it. But of course it just kept eating at me.
About 2+ months ago I started flirting with everyone (female) LOL. Just a little bit and it helped me feel better some. Then I started talking to a girl on the internet. Long story short, I thought she was cute and started talking with her. I told her what I was going through after time. We now talk daily and I have started to not think about the affair my wife had but what I could have with this new young lady. She has one child herself and is divorced because of cheating husband. I really am starting to have strong feelings for this girl, we are similar in age and we have so much to say to each other. I have not met up with her because I am still married and do not want to do that even though my wife went full monte.
I can now see my wife and I just as friends, and I can go find true love. Instead of thinking of the affair, as soon as I wake up I think about her. Let's just call her Sara.
My wife has made comments to me while discussing her affair as "you have done things to me and I have done things to you, lets both just get over it"
What!?!!!!
My heart tells me to move on and get to know Sara more, she makes me feel great and I can feel her love. (Even though we have never went on a date)
I want to!
Any advise?
To make the story short, my wife had a relationship with one of her school classmates for a few months and had sex with him at least one time (from what she says) drunk after the graduation party. She told me and I did not find out from someone else. Well I am 9-10 months from D day and have gone through the mixed stages. For the last few months I have been feeling better but could not stop thinking about 'IT'. I started feeling like I was ugly ext... not worth enough and so on. About 3 months in I could tell my wife started to really feel bad about it and was trying hard to get things back. We have one child that is 7. I tried hard too, we went on trips, spent time together more ext. I felt like maybe I could get passed it. But of course it just kept eating at me.
About 2+ months ago I started flirting with everyone (female) LOL. Just a little bit and it helped me feel better some. Then I started talking to a girl on the internet. Long story short, I thought she was cute and started talking with her. I told her what I was going through after time. We now talk daily and I have started to not think about the affair my wife had but what I could have with this new young lady. She has one child herself and is divorced because of cheating husband. I really am starting to have strong feelings for this girl, we are similar in age and we have so much to say to each other. I have not met up with her because I am still married and do not want to do that even though my wife went full monte.
I can now see my wife and I just as friends, and I can go find true love. Instead of thinking of the affair, as soon as I wake up I think about her. Let's just call her Sara.
My wife has made comments to me while discussing her affair as "you have done things to me and I have done things to you, lets both just get over it"
What!?!!!!
My heart tells me to move on and get to know Sara more, she makes me feel great and I can feel her love. (Even though we have never went on a date)
I want to!
Any advise?
Put the internet to work for you.
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