After six years of marriage I've finally gotten a straight answer from my wife that she not only doesn't want kids now, but she can't ever imagine herself having them. I've always believed I was destined to be a father - it's a big part of why I got married in the first place, although like a moron I assumed she felt the same way. After all, why wouldn't someone wasn't kids?
Well after years of "not now but maybe someday," she has come clean that she never sees herself having or raising children. I'm young enough that I can meet and marry again but am starting to approach the age where that likelihood declines. I also am fairly positive that if I stay married to her and give up the dream of my own children I'll resent her for it for the rest of my days.
Writing this out it seems pretty obvious what I should do.
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Well after years of "not now but maybe someday," she has come clean that she never sees herself having or raising children. I'm young enough that I can meet and marry again but am starting to approach the age where that likelihood declines. I also am fairly positive that if I stay married to her and give up the dream of my own children I'll resent her for it for the rest of my days.
Writing this out it seems pretty obvious what I should do.
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