Magnets. BALANCING ENERGY....why do they walk away from conflict?..need advice.

My ex partner dealt with things by not dealing with them, stone walling, walking away half assing ect. there were rarely any converations where feelings were heard acknowledged validated and released. when we ould fight and he would walk away, it would inspire a side of me that in hindsight would appear clingly or weak and pathtic. I would chase after him. He gained so much power by knowing that I would always chase after him. In the beginning it was subtle, but the more we progressed the more imbalanced this got. I felt like he would consciously do it because he would know that I would just come running fter him. It would drive me nuts that he couldn't just stay and resolve like adults. I ended the relationship because this balance eventually started to feel like I was being emotionally abused. My question is, why do these imbalances make us drawn to chase..when someone is walking away, I could never rationalize it and it got to the point whetre I went from being a confident self assured man, to being his perverbial " bitch".. I couldn't rationalize why anyone would ever enjoy that "power" or choose to walk away from their partner when it clearly made them feel insignificant and abused and like poop! I HATE when people walk away ( abandonement issue trigger I suppose) but why do we run after them?.. why do they even walk away is the Bigger question!!>????

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