is this just negativity?

So my husband has been depressed as I've described in another thread. I try to understand some of his behaviors and figure out if they are related to depression, negativity or something else. He often says one thing and then says something else later that is totally contradictory. Here is an example... we have small dogs and my H likes them to sleep in the bed with us. I do not want them in the bed because I am a light sleeper and I will get woken up all night. Almost every night he asks me if the dogs can sleep with us, and last night I decided to give in. I said ok, tonight they can sleep with us as long as you promise to take them out in the morning (I do most of the caretaking of the dogs, it was my idea to get them in the first place). So we go upstairs to get ready for bed, and my husband says "ugh, I have a headache, I really don't want the dogs in bed with us tonight". Well that sounds great to me, so I said ok and brought them d ownstairs and put them in their crates and came back upstairs. Husband was protesting and didn't understand why I put them downstairs, saying it was mean and he wanted them in bed. I told him I did that because he just said he didn't want them in the bed, and since I didn't either, why should I lose sleep at night if he didn't really want them there to begin with! Another example...we are tring to figure out where we want to eat dinner. H says he wants to eat at a particular Mexican restaurant. So we go there and as we are pulling in the parking lot he asks why we are eating at such a cheap place. He is the one who suggested it! He is just being negative? Am I going crazy?

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