frustrated but dont know what to do

my husband and i have been married for 10 years we have had tons of ups and downs. today he was doing a job that lasted all day he finished up about 11pm then before the clients left he walked them out (he works from home). he was out there a while and when i looked out he and the female were very close and he was Smoking! He has only smoked a few times years ago socially but not since then. then the female hugged him good bye. I felt angry automatically. when i confronted him he told me not to shut up pretty much and then he took off to go drinking alone. soo many problems but im a little annoyed that hes soo easily pressured to something like smoke, i dont think its right for him to be hugging clients like that, and last we just moved to a new town im a stay at home mom and in the last month i have been with the kids(4of them) 24/7 no alone time not even a shower and it i am furious that he thinks its ok to go drinking i dont even know what to d o or say. any advice?:mad: sorry for bad everything im frustrated

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