Family issues with bf

I saw the post below so thought I should share. I am dating a 19 year old man and I am 18. We are long distance and I have not seen him in 7 months. We have been dating for around 11 months. My mother used to like him enough and my sister did as well. A while back he tried to talk my sister (Jelena) out of drugs and then my sister did not like him at all, it kind of got patched over but then my mom would always blame how my relationship with my sister was not as good as it used to on him and me. We really did nothing wrong, he was trying to help. Well I could deal with comments here and there but my relationship with my sister was getting worse. She is judgmental and always thinks she is right and she wont listen to you. Just like my mom. Well anyhow fast forward to a couple days ago. I am into nude photography and kind of let it slip from my mouth to my sister that I want to get nude with my bf in pictures. I would be 18 so it fine and it is nothing like porn. Nude photography is art in my eyes and I want a career from it. I should of kept my mouth shut but I thought I could trust her. She told my mom and my flipped out, Jelena called me disgusting, whore, she said she lost all respect for me. My mom said the same and how she hates my bf and thinks we are disgusting. I was seeing my bf in a couple days and I am so glad I could talk to my mom to let me go. I had to act like I was at wrong and act like they were right, I really needed to see my bf. Before I was able to go I tried asking Jelena to talk to my mom and let me go to florida. It was dumb and made me feel weak but I was desperate. She said no and would not care at all of I could not go then called me a bitch. I am planning on staying with my bf for a while..like 4 or more months. I really can not deal with them, they make me feel at wrong when I know Im not. My sisters bf was even messaging me telling me I should not do nude photography and I blocked him. He said a lot more and said I was selfish and immature. He also basically said me and jay were the same person since we are twins so I would be ruining Jelenas future. I am not her, I am my own person. It was complete bullshit, they told me to unblock him as well or I cant go to florida. I cant even be the person I want to be, I think nudity is beautiful, as long as the photos are not degrading or porn. I dont want anything to do with them. If it makes it better I will not be showing my face, my body does not even look exactly the same as Jelena's. Its not like people will think my nude art is her naked body. Unless millions of people knew what Jelena looked like naked..and even if they did like I said my body does look different. It was horrible and now I hate them, they are judgmental and mean people. I have been ignoring my sister as best as I can but she still makes comments thinking I am a bitch for not talking to her.

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