Have 6 Children wife wants more ,me no

Newbie here , doing a search I came across this forum. My wife and I have 6 children (all ours together) while preg with # 4 she suggested a Vas. I never thought about it before , but started to make arrangements for it to happen,in the process we had some issues (I chalked it up to hormones as I felt she was getting a little irratical about different things) The eve before it was to get done she asked me not to do it,she was almost due with #5 ,But I wasn;t going to just not get it done ,again I felt it was her hormonal thing ???? anyway after that day she was very resentful for months, she obsessed over me getting a reversal and other options. At first I simply thought she was off her rocker, but she was threatening to leave etc...(I didn't really take that serious .however I wasn't really against the idea of 6 so I went and had a reversal. It was successful and we now have a fantastic 9 months boy to go with our 13 y, 11y, 5 y, 3y, 2yearolds (s eeing a pattern?) well after our newborn it became apparent she was trying to get pregnant again.but it was not working as she wanted my to provide a sample (came back neg for sperm twice).So I voiced that we need to move on (I am 47 and she 34) and focus on the ones we have .The war is on now.She has told me to get another VR or she is moving out . I have a strong suspicion she may have a "Baby or prego addiction" she will not hear of seeking councilling or talking to her DR. about this .It's non negotiable on her part! my parents split when I was 9 ,I have sworn to myself I would do anything to not let this happen to mine, however realistically financially, time and a hundred other reasons tell me we are maxed out now. I do know she is inquiring to find another place to go..any thoughts ?

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