| Been on a date, getting mixed vibes when I like him a lot already. But should I even bother dating him, he's got a month left in UK and then he goes back to uni until December when he graduates from Masters. He goes to uni in the USA! I met this guy through an app called Tinder which works through Facebook and your mutual friends, he lives about 10 mins away and last night we decided to be spontaneous and go out. We went out for drinks but the club was really busy so we ended up leaving straight away and went for a walk along the river, then we decided to drive to his house and have a drink there. He was a gentleman and very affectionate, he liked me and told me that he was glad he met me etc. One thing lead to another and we were in bed watching a movie. He tried it on, just like most guys would, what was to be expected, of course I didn't go there with him... I mentioned that I wanted to see a particular movie and he said that we should go together. Great second date in the bag already! It was getting late and I needed to go and he offered me a lift. We're both new to this app and haven't met anyone else on it. Since then, he's been a bit off POSSIBLY- I don't really know how he normally act via text. Below is today's conversation. He hasn't replied in 3 hours, yet I've checked his profile on this dating app and he's on every 5-15 mins...obviously talking to a girl. TEXTS: Him: I really enjoyed meeting you x Me: Yeah you too! Just got into bed, quite tired. We should do something sometime next week? It's a shame your going back to uni soon though, hmm... Xx Him: Yeah I know!! I was so well behaved tonight :P xx Me: Right........ X Him: When would be good to meet? The cinemas?x Me: (sent a funny picture of a weird looking guy with a tee shirt on saying 'I **** on the first date) You were well behaved? Congratulations. Haha ^ ...The movie doesn't come out until the 7th but we can do something before that if you want? x Him: Haha I wish :P. absolutely. I would like that x Me: some great texting from you here...ha, naaat! What are you up to?! I didn't mean to be like frigid bridget last night, which I'm not but its too soon for that. I'm undecided as to what you think of me now, feel as though I'm getting mixed signals here, maybe your just after a bit of fun, which is fine, but realise quickly I'm not that girl x Him: Not at all. Mixed signals, what do you mean? I'm just trying to sort out my Internet in the room. X Me: Isn't "mixed signals" pretty self explanatory haha. Will text you tonight, in a bit of a rush right now x Him: I was asking for specifics :P x Me: Mixed signals...I guess i was expecting a "it was nice to see you let's do something soon" etc. Not me asking and then you not responding to that part and instead saying you were "well behaved :P" Questionable response. I do a one worded reply and then you finally suggests in a possibly quite a none enthusiastic way. Sorry. I'm totally fine, just simply saying how it came across to me, you asked... I haven't dated for a while and I guess I'm a bit wary of guys after my ex. I wasn't sure weather to reply or not to be honest, that's why I took so long. Just nosing on that app, your like 95 miles away?! Where areeeeee you? Ha. I don't know if you've noticed that I'm on it quite frequent but I don't respond to anyone like that, although I have just received the most random chat up line to date "Would you say you're a hybrid of Nelson Mandela and jet from gladiators?" Whaaaaat!? Haha. Seeeee yaaaa! LOL. In all seriously Im simply just talking to some friends who i know from uni on it x (Sent 4 hours ago, no response, but yet he's been frequently on this dating app) | |||
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So frustrated my last nights date. Text included. Need some advice please :(
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