She wants me out...should I go?

Hi everyone, would love to get some insights here. The marriage looks like it's nearing the end. Two kids. 10 years. No history of abuse, either physical or mental. Emotional, yeah, on both sides, but not directed at the kids. Short version: she wants me out now, today, but I am worried that I will be in deeper trouble if I leave. I can stay in the spare bedroom and we can keep our distance without too many issues. I am wondering what the legal/financial impact is if I leave; I'm in Ontario Canada. I don't want to turn this into a he said/she said thing, we both have made mistakes. She has threatened to get some of her Italian family over to get me out forcibly, I am fairly sure that won't happen, and I countered with me calling the police if that happens. Yep....this is where we are at... Insights are very welcome, I'm a bit lost here.

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