| So, the separation is over a year now and the STBXH is wondering why the D isn't final. He hasn't mentioned the D, or the process the entire time, but now he wants to know why there's a delay. I told him that I am wading through the paperwork to draft a QDRO, working with the Plan administrator. I also told him that I am financially strapped and can't file until I can actually pay the attorney who is helping. In what he thought was a magnanimous gesture he OFFERED to pay have the fees. One catch: I have to wait until he gets the payment from the QDRO because money is a little tight. I tried to tell him that was pointless because he gets nothing until the D is entered. He replied, "Well, I offered." So his big offer is to pay me with my retirement money, after I pay the attorney in the first place. Oh to live on candy mountain....... | |||
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