Is he being possessive?

So I started chatting to this guy and we met up for the first time and it was casual normal getting to know you better conversation at first, then when we were alone instead of just making a move and kissing me he announced it, like "I really want to kiss you, I am going to" which made me uncomfortable because I'm quite shy and then he didn't do anything, we sat in awkward silence and then eventually we did kiss. We met up again a few days later and he randomly asked me to be his girlfriend, which Lisa took me by surprise because we'd only met twice and hadnt been speaking that long so I barely knew him, I said maybe as I'd like to get to know him better. So we aren't together in any way, I made it clear, I texte him saying I'm not ready for a relationship and I want to be by myself and grow as a person, but it seemed like he wasn't reading what I was saying at all because his replies would always be like "I'm willing to wait as long as it takes for you to be ready" and I would just be like yeah but I don't want a relationship, just so that's clear so I'm not leading you on. But I can see him months down the line being like so are you ready yet? Will you go out with me? And I'll be like I made this clear ages ago! I have also been talking to other guys and it's making me feel guilty, although I'm not sure I should because we aren't together and as I've said I've told him what I want (or rather dont want..) He will text me often and once I was with my friends who I hadn't seen in a while so I wasn't sitting on my phone the whole time and because I didn't reply straight away he sent me a moody text being like "just forget about it then" and he regularly goes in the huff with me if I basically don't do what he wants me to. He will constantly ask me to come hang out with him and I'll be busy, working or just want to chill at home but he will pester me trying to make me go and I'm like just take no for an answer and drop it! Also at night I usually just go to sleep, as you do, but if he's been texting me and I drift off and haven't replied I will wake up to angry texts asking why I didn't say good night or tell him I was going to sleep... I told him this was just silly because I don't plan to fall asleep it just happens :S and I feel like saying things like night and stuff is a bit of a couples thing to do? I don't really randomly text any of my friends saying "good night gorgeous :)" or anything like that. Basically guy I'm not dating moans about me not texting him back 24/7, wants to hang out 24/7 and seems to think something will happen in the future despite me saying I don't want a relationship, what should I do? Or am I overreacting to his behaviour and its perfectly normal?

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