I am done.. he refuses to accept it.

So, I have read a lot of the treads on here but now I need some advice or opinions or something. Here is a little background: We have been married 8 years, together 12. We have two small children who are my world. After several years of asking for a divorce, an attempt at MC, and putting up with what I consider to be abusive mental and emotional behavior, I finally filed for divorce. My H is an attorney so he has had me scared to death to even talking to a lawyer about divorce for years. So now I am in full "go" mode. I'm ready... I think for the fight ahead. Unfortunatly, my H is not as cooperative as I would have wished for. No fight, he just wants 6 more months to "fix" everything. He said that if I will agree to give him 6 months he will give me what I am asking for in the divorce and not fight but if I don't he will drag this out for years and make my life hell for as long a possible (he will have no legal fees to pay). To me, this seems to be another attempt to control me. To make sure he has control of this situation and the outcome of it. I just don't know what to do. Do i suck it up for 6 months and then hopefully get out as amicably as possible or do I just fight it out? I me et with my lawyer next week to discuss this but was wondering if anyone else has been in this sort of situation.

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