coming

anon pls hope it's ok for me to post this. i loved having sex with my ex. not so much with my current bf. even though he's so much more suited to me in other ways. but lots of things in bed, but one of the most strange: my ex would come basically in 10 secs if he wanted to. and then it'd be an orgasm that reverberated through his body (and thus through mine). my current bf takes like 2 mins to come when I tell him that he can come now, and even after that I don't even feel that he's come. his body does nothing, although it's obvious from his facial expression sometimes that he's just finished, i don't feel in sync with him at all. i know you can't determine how you come and i know i shouldnt get frustrated that he takes his time to orgasm. (it feels as though there's so much effort that goes into him, btw it's always him initiating the sex, not me) i have no experience. how do guys normally come?

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