People Want to Avoid Adknowledging Infidelity

The community I live in has a fairly active, forum where people talk about an assortment of local issues. I thought to myself, you know people don't normally consider preventing infidelity until it's too late, I'll toss a post up suggesting people should share Facebook, emails, and review each others phone logs. Otherwise people won't think about this stuff until they are knee deep in it. Based on the response you would think I was advocating babies live! Half the women think I'm airing my dirty laundry, and trying to shame my wife: my wife saw me write the post, and it is so vague and anonymous they can probably narrow us down to 1 in 1,000,000. Once you go through the pain of infidelity, I'm not exactly sure how embarrassment is that much of a specter. A lot of the women think you should just trust, and be attentive! That's great except it was exactly what I was doing when my wife was initiating her EA. My trust actually worked against me because it simply never entered into my consciousness that this lovely kind woman could be betraying me like this, until her behavior shifted and she wasn't lovely or kind. Supposedly no good deed goes unpunished and I am catching some heck there, but maybe I will get lucky and wake up at least one person :)

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