how to spice things up? suggestions welcome.

Wife and I have been married almost 3 years. We have a great relationship and things have definitely gotten better after starting to work out again. We are both physically attracted to each other and enjoy sex. Lately it seems we start it the same, go through the motions, and check it off a to-do list. Definitely not her fault or mine, just havent found anything new in a while that makes us both excited to get down. We introduced watching porn together a couple times but not sure it is her favorite. I suggested oil/massage, which we like but dont do all the time because it is messy, kind of save for date nights. Basically looking for suggestions as to some new things to add to our repertoire to spice things up. Toys? Techniques? Finger here? Mouth there? etc... I am open to suggestions too, things I would enjoy. Am pretty conservative but am open to ideas of things to suggest to her to try on me. Maybe she would have more fun durin g if she knew I was over the clouds, I know I enjoy it more when I know she is. Another concern, when going down on her, she seems to be way more ticklish than enjoying it. She is generally pushing my head away and ready for it to be over with. One of my concerns is that once she said she gets nervous when she feels like she is going to orgasm because she feels like she will "wet herself". From what I understand that sensation is normal, but doesnt actually occur. Any way to get her to keep going when she gets that feeling or get the entire act to be less ticklish and more enjoyable? She has been incredibly accommodating on most things in this area of our marriage, want to make sure she is as happy as I am.

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