Dating someone with children VS no children

Okay here is my background. I'm going to be 46 in June. 2 boys 13 and 8. The 13 yr old is going to stay with me and I will have my youngest every other weekend at least. But I think I will have him every Wed afternoon from 3pm to 7 or 8 pm and Saturday 8 am to 2 or 3 pm. My thought process on this and I'm skewed and wrong. But I want to give you my mindset. I'm a bit of a believer that finding a women or dating a women with kids might be better then one without especially one near 40 or in her 40s because regardless of gender someone with kids can honestly relate more then one without. I feel that someone that has been single for a greater part of their lives is more leaning towards going on vacation without the kids. Looking to spend a majority of the time without kids present. Again there are probably many women without kids that would be very "motherly", but I think just like men many women do might not want to deal with kids. The reality is I need to spend time with my kids and just cannot go out every night or meet every night unless this person is wiling to come to my home to be with me and my son or sons. Or she is willing and wanting to have my kids come to her home. I totally understand that someone who is really into you will want you regardless of your kids. But you need to get to that point. I know I'm good, but not that good at making women fall for me. :D So as I read these threads here related to dating women and men with kids and what not I started to wonder where many fall into with this. I'm very open minded and just trying to get some advice from those that have gone before me here. Thanks TONS in advance.

Put the internet to work for you. via Personal Recipe 2629979