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Casual sex or more??

So I've met a guy a couple of weeks ago, ended up as a ONS. I liked him and it was really nice, but that was all for me. I had let slip where I usually hang out and, coincidentally (yea sure), I met him again, which he seemed very happy about.
As I said, I had enjoyed his company and the sex was really good so we kinda started this f*ckbuddy thing. I dont have a problem with casual sex and I have to admit I really really enjoy it with him as it just keeps getting better and better lol. :D

The thing is Im not entirely sure what he thinks about all this...
Hes not the calm, sensitive, romatic kinda guy, on the contrary- Id rather classify him as the kind that drinks, smokes, parties, does stupid stuff with his friends and sleeps around. The kind that is not ready for a serious relationship yet.
We basically only meet to have sex but he doesnt behave like other guys who are just in it for the sex. He wants to cuddle a lot (i mean a LOT) and is always telling me those terribly sweet and nice things, and Im not talking about that usual cheesy ****, I know all that. Plus, he knows that hes gonna get it anyway.
Also, he's always asking me if I have been seeing any other guys, he's telling me that he wants to see me more often, when I'm not seeing him he's texting me that he misses me (mostly with a sexual allure though) AND he wants me to stay awfully long in the mornings, just cuddling.
I've had casual things happening in the past and he just doesn't seem like those other guys. But maybe he just is like that.
We keep joking around, especially me. if he starts with that emotional stuff I always try and make it into some kind of sex joke.
I don't really want a reationship atm but am finding the thought of him falling for me disturbingly appealing. You know, I think I am falling for the idea of him falling for me.

Any opinions? Preferably guys, what do you think of this behaviour?

I know that Im gonna have to ask him at some point, but for now I'd just like some outside opinions, cos dont want to risk ending it (have I mentioned that the sex is AMAZING??)




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