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Boyfriend keeps comparing me to the new women at work :( what should i do

My boyfriend of 2 years works at an accounting firm while im in my second year of uni. Recently a women whose a few years older than me has started working there, ive never met her just heard about her from my boyfriend. I literally am not fussed in the slightest about him working with women I live in the real world men and women mix it doesnt bother me at all he works with loads of young pretty women but for some reason what he says about this girl really bothers me.

For instance he told me she was gorgous which fair enough could be an observation but I dont think hes ever refered to me once as gorgous in our whole relationship yet starts banging on about her stunning and pretty she isd and told me that his boss told him to "keep away" from her. He went out for a boys night out with the work lot on friday and if im honest i was slightly upset he was going as hes going away on holiday and ive got deadlines so it was the last night we could spend together for over a month. Anyway I didnt make a fuss as i thought its a boys night its not fair to demand to see him yet i find out this new women at work went with them, non of the other girls did but this one found out where they were going clubbing and turned up at the same club.

My boyfriend also kept telling me how amazing she is and intersting as she is going travelling for 3 weeks round Asia and its something he'd love to do, i cant travel as I have bad health etc and also I want to get my degree and get straight into working yet he said ' i wouldnt understand' about how exciting and amazing travelling would be and basically implied im boring.

We went out for dinner and I made a massive effort to look nice to impress him as he never says anything about how I look I brought a brand new dress did my hair nicely and spent bloody hours trying to look nice for him to which he just told me 'vicly (the women at work) wore a dress like that when we went out it really suited her' then made no comment about how I looked. The women is always texting him constantly claiming its work but then ive seen its getting quite personal such as what are you up to this weekend we should go for a drink blah blah shes only been working there a week yet is texting him alot. The work events he use to take me to have now suddanly become no girlfriends.

I dont know if im becoming paronoid but the way he is accting and the fact hes only known this women for a week yet talks about her more nicely and affectionatly than he has ever spoken to or about me is getting me down do I have a right to feel threatend or is it all in my head




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