What would you say to this?

Ok my husband and I have have sex maybe 3 times a week. Well ever since we got married he started with the I am stingy thing which is absurd because he always knew I had a higher sex drive. Mind you he did hear a lot from the guys at his work oh as soon as you marry her forget the sex. Well we have been married for almost a year and a half and I see him changing not me here is my example. Tell me how you would respond and how would you feel because I was hurt. Well we have only been together once this month and I am leaving this weeknd for a week to care for my sisters daughter while their on vacation. So he says to me last night. I have a thought but don't be upset, being you are going to be gone for a week why don't we just not have sex the rest of the month so come March we are like really raring to go? I was hurt because he is always saying that I'm not attracted to him and I don't want to be with him. Which neither are true. He knows I think he is Hot and I always want him. Now me on the other hand I am feeling pretty old hat after his comment, I mean a guy saying let's not have sex so we want to basically. Wow! I couldn't help but cry after he went to sleep. Any thoughts would be great, thanks

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