Stealing?

Hello all, I have a suspicion that my wife has been stealing. In specific, once stealing cash from my parents and another time stealing cash and prescription drugs from a co-worker. This was brought to my attention at first by my parents. We were staying over for a short weekend trip and my mother noticed that a large sum of money was missing from her coat. My family wasn't quick to point fingers; while arguing amongst themselves, they backtracked to determine anything that could have caused the money to go missing (misplaced, used somewhere else, etc.) but eventually deduced that somebody had to have taken it. As nobody else was in the house for the entirety of the weekend, reason stated that it could only have been my lady that stole. It wasn't until a few days later that certain members of my family confronted me and "nicely" pointed the finger. They also mentioned not to talk about it to my wife as it would only hurt our relationship and also the fact that there was no smoking gun. About a month later at a get together, my co-worker found out that she had cash and prescription drugs stolen from her purse, from a room that my wife was spending a lot of time in. Everybody at the event knew and trusted each other, and nobody would steal. My wife was the only x-factor here. Again, no smoking gun and my co-worker decided that not saying anything would be the best thing to do. There are a few things here that might only be coincidence, but is strong circumstantial evidence: - She works very little and makes only enough money to barely pay her personal bills - She doesn't ask me for money directly because I am the sole breadwinner and already subsidize her financial obligations - She is nosy and doesn't respect my personal privacy - She often comes home with expensive items she claims she found on the street - She (in jest) had expressed interest in selling her own prescription drugs that she doesn't use This has been in the back of my mind for the longest time and I'm not sure what to do here. We've been having tons of problems in the last year (I have and still am considering ending divorce) and everybody else I've talked to doesn't know how they would approach this. It's even got to the point where my wife is suspicious of the fact that my described co-worker will no longer talk to her during events where we're all in the same room. That gets really awkward, and I have to lie when my wife asks me if I've been talking about her behind her back because my co-worker was acting funny.

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