adult children living at home

What should i do with my two adult children who are living at home? They are both over 18 and should be working part time and going to college, but only one is even remotely interested in college, and the other only wants to play. They both pay rent, but a very little amount, they have no expenses, as neither of them has a car or drives, they both do not have drivers licenses. In our home it was a rule that you had to have good grades and a part time job in order take driving lessons and be able to pay for the driving school and car insurance too. So neither of the kids got their drivers licenses. One just wants to skateboard all day and night and keeps getting tickets for not wearing a helmet, these tickets are not cheap, the last one was over $250.00 ! But he still refuses to wear a helmet! He is an adult so i cannot tell him to wear a helmet, although i have suggested that if he had a helmet on it would stop him being ticketed and would save hi m in the long run. The other one chose to go to a community college several cities away from our city, even though we live within a short walk to a very good accredited community college. And now wakes up late and bugs me for a ride to the bus stop, because she will miss her connector bus and will not make it to college on time. this after i have already worked and am exhausted and all i want is to sit down and have a peaceful cup of coffee.

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