| My STBXW and I are attempting to have a cooperative divorce in order to minimize legal fees. The norm for custody here is that each parent gets 50% so I'm happy about that. The issue I am having is a lot of pent up anger regarding our separation and it affects the way I interact with her. She seems to think there was nothing wrong with moving in her boyfriend into our apartment three days after I left for travel back to my home country (I was gone for two months - we had just separated a month prior but were rotating parental time at the old apartment). Her boyfriend was the AP in her affair and the reason we separated. Anyhow, I felt it was a terrible choice for a mother to make for our two children (they are three and six years old). As mothers, how do you interpret this action? Does it seem as disrespectful to you ad it does to me? Her reasoning was that she was going to be moving into a new place with AP anyways so what difference did it make. Any advice on how to handle this emotionally or legally? My eldest has difficulty talking about it but I know she's sad about having this all shoved down her throat. | |||
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