| hi, first time on the board,not married but in a relationship & seeking advise. I an adult (out of 20's) and in a relationship for the past year.Before I meet this person I was in a relationship (emotionally not physicallly) with a person of the same sex. I never had one before but this person was so special & made me feel so special we attempted to have a realtionship.However when I met my current partner I knew the reason things would never work was bc I wasnt homosexual. The terrible part in all of this is I never really ended things with the inital person,I carried on in my heteroal relationship ,meeting family,getting to know each other,social events etc,all the time the other person not knowing & thinking I was still their partner.I tried to end it multiple times but was so afraid to lose their friendship I kept saying "ok we will try" mentally having NO intentions of being in a relationship with that person.This fall I ended it for good,however this winter due to a mutitue of things I confessed everything(trying to be friends).The homosexually ex partner is torn apart ,angry & confused as to why I did it,as am I. Now I am at a cross roads as should I tell the person I am in a relationship with? Was it technically cheating? Was the hurt caused to the homosexually partner? I am also currently pregnant. I terrified of what will happen in the oncoming future.Any help or advise would be appricated. | |||
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