How often does a husband change his mind after filing for divorce?

Ok. I'm sure a lot of you here are familiar with my situation. i've posted before. first off, please don't post mean, or rude opinions. i am going through a very hard time. any way. My husband is gone. He left the house a little over a month ago. He says he doesn't love me any more and he has went and got the divorce papers already. he wants to push this divorce through as fast as possible. I think he's making a very impulsive decision, but he insists he doesn't want to work on our marriage, he says he's 100 % sure he doesn't want to be with me any more. but in the same breath, i told him that "if you let this divorce go through, don't try to weasel your way back into my life a year down the road, when i'm finally happy and moving on." and he responded with. "Well, can't say i wouldn't try." what does this mean. is he toying with me or something. any way, as some of you know he has been dating a new girl for a little over a week now. He thinks the grass is going to be so much greener on the other side, we will see about that i guess. I know every one tells me that he's an ass, and i just need to move on and let him go. and i know that logically. i just can't fully accept it in my heart. i keep hoping he would have a change of heart and realize the mistake he's making. and breaking up our family, with our two kids. the kids don't deserve that either. This whole situation is such a night mare. i would give any thing to have things go back to him coming home every night, and having our family together. my question is, is there any hope that before the divorce goes through he would maybe change his mind, even tho he is so set on this divorce? some of my family says that the divorce will most likely go through, but they have a feeling in the next year or two, he will come crawling back. i don't know. not knowing what the future is going to bring makes me very nervous. and i know i just need to be strong and move on and f orget about him. i get it. its just so much easier said than done. what do you think. Is there any hope of things changing?

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