Is he playing me?

This carries on from my last thread. I've been great friends with this guys for almost a year and we've always been very flirty friends, we work together so we see eachother a lot. We're both 22 and since about march I've had feelings for him that bode beyond that of just friends, my palms get sweaty and I feel a rush every time hes around. I've really fallen for his personality. So 3 weeks ago he went away on holiday to Scotland. While he was away he an i texted every single day all day. Just general chit chat about how our days been and what we've been up to/plans for the day and we got really flirty over text. Insinuation things like kissing and stuff until I just manned up and said 'what is going on with us, what are we doing and I told him how I felt about him' He said he liked me too but his feelings grow the more he spends time with people and that if I was happy to we should get to know eachother better. So for the past two weeks we have. Infact we've gone beyond that and talk about sex and being with eachother a lot which is something I never do. I thought we were getting somewhere. He's a great guy, a genuinly good guy but I guess I feel it's not going anywhere. The other night I asked him if we were actually heading somewhere and things escalated pretty quickly we stopped seeing eachother. My problem is I think it was just a bit of fun for him. I don't think he has any feelings for me that go any deeper and it breaks my heart. I told him I'd give him time to decide what he wants for us and he said if I'm going to make him decide then we should just be friends because ill just get wound up otherwise. He said he didnt because he didn't want to hurt me, he said he didn't want to say he was there and prove to be shit. So we became just friends. About a week later he texted me as he normally would and said he was horny. We've never had sex, I'm a virgin; but we do sext and like an idiot I played along. This went on for a few nights and we went back to how we were even though we said we'd be friends. I guess now I just feel like he's just playing me because he likes the attention I give him. He gets wound up when I say he should just move on to the next girl or anything because he says I'm giving up on us but the thing is there is no 'us' he doesn't want a relationship with me. Sometimes I just think he wants the fun of it. So many mixed signal but by heart is so set on him. What do I do? What do you think?

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