| Hello all. My first ever post to a bulletin board. I felt like I have been crazy until I started reading other posts. I'm going to try an condense this. My wife and I have been going to counselling for a couple of months now. The main issue was her complaint of my lack of trust for her due to things that happened in the past. I agree that I am a jealous husband, and in the past I didn't communicate with her well regarding how she handles herself with other men. I have always felt she gets flirtatious with other men when she drinks. Plus, she does not seem to think it is improper for her to have texting conversations with other men, and not inform me about it. She says I should just trust her completely. So in counselling we both agreed that she would tell me about any conversations with men she was having. This was to help me work on my trust issues. So in our session and at home I asked if there was anyone other that the one other man I was aware of and she said no. Fast forward several weeks and I felt things were getting better. Until I was traveling for business and decided to look at my cell phone bill online. Long story short, I find out she is texting another man, clustered when I am travelling. I confronted her about it and she said that there is nothing going on but she has been texting him back and forth for about a year. She said she didn't want to tell me because she new I didn't like him. I don't know what to believe anymore. Am I being irrational for expecting my wife to not have private conversations with other men? I don't have private conversations with other women, because I know how I feel. My mind is going in 100 different directions and I am loosing it. Any insight? | |||
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