| My H had an online EA last year. I found out one day and had him shut the whole affair down - sent OW a NC email and shut down the email account that connected them. We had MC and he had some IC. I have a keylogger on his computer and he still does not know. For a few months after NC, there was no contact. OW tried to email him once or twice but he did not respond. Things seemed to be moving forward. I discovered a few months ago he had googled her a few times looking at her facebook page which is partially public. I told him I saw his trail on the computer and to stop. He did immediately. So more and more months have gone by and I was feeling like maybe we had made it out of this alive. I still trigger and have very bad days, but I was just happy he did not go underground and that the OW was not of the stalker variety (she has not tried to reach him again). And then.... Just as I was starting to plan a weekend away for the two of us as a little way to celebrate (didn't tell him that, but I was starting to feel happy and comfortable again and wanted to enjoy the feeling with a fun weekend away) I noticed something on the computer. H was logged into Windows Live Messenger which is an instant chat service. And when I looked through the history i see he has been there a lot. Often invisible. Low and behold all his old chat buddies are still contacts, including the god awful OW. :( With further investigation I see this was never closed down and H seems to sign in periodically. With further digging having discovered this OW's username, I realize she is also still connected to him on twitter. She tweets quite a bit. He has not tweeted once since he was caught initially. I am in a bit of shock and not sure the severity of this. Any advice how to move forward very welcome please. Thanks. Sorry this is so long. :( | |||
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