Can your husband be too independent

Question for the Ladies: I have posted on other threads about my wife's lack of desire for intimacy. Through some serious deliberations, I have come to the realization that we live very separate lives. So my question is this: Do you want your men to be ultra-independent? Do you want to be needed? Let's draw a line between being needed and wanted. Needed is where they need you to make sure that they pack a lunch, make sure that they remember this or that. Wanted is where they want to be with you, share space with you, and such. I will make this short but I am a very independent person. I do my own laundry. I take care of my transportation needs. I feed myself 90% of the time. In short, I live pretty much the same life as I did before marrying her. Would that level of detachment turn you off? Or would you find it admirable that your man takes care of all his needs without you? Additional question: Would his not needing you in daily life affect you in the bedroom? Would you want him less sexually if your need to nurture was not being met?

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