This happened a while ago, near the end of last year. It still plays on my mind after how the couple of people I told reacted. So I am seeking other's views.
(P.s. I was 19)
So a guy i knew through mutual friends invited me and friends to an event and he took care of my ticket. He's 41.
Later I talked to him on FB and he said we should meet to chat over dinner out or at home. So I ended up going round his. Anyway he cooked etc. and gave me lots of drinks etc.
I was intending on going home after dinner, and I didn't think much of it. As it goes, he ended up making lots of cocktails (think doubles of 4 shots), while he himself drank very little. I then largely blacked out and ended up sleeping with him. [I very rarely black out].
In the morning I was confused when I woke and since then have barely replied to his many messages, though he's stopped now I think.
Anyway I just wanted opinions on it as to be honest it's the one time I've felt taken advantage of, and while I should have stuck to my intentions to not to drink too much, and obviously drunken consent still counts, I'd still like some thoughts as it bothers me.
TIA :-)
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