I'm in my 40s, 11 year marriage...we have rarely used lubricant in our sex life, but recently I have trouble getting "wet" on my own at certain times of the month. I don't think it's any big deal. DH hates the feeling of lubricant and says it diminishes his pleasure and sulks if I use it. And most of the time I don't use it. Or if I do, it's just a small amount. But I don't think it's fair for me to have an unpleasant or painful encounter just so he can maximize his own pleasure. Does lube really feel that bad for men?
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