Hi everyone!
My husband had his second affair with a woman 10 years younger than me and 18 years younger than him. At first he said he want a divorce but he didn't took any action. He work over sea's and we see him every 3 months. If it was possible me and he kids went to visit him over school holidays. Any way he came for a visit and said he is going to visit his brother but he is going on his own. He came back from his holiday that was suppose to be one week and end up 2 weeks. He went back to work and I found a picture of him and the girl in the car. And so the whole thing started. She lives in another country and he paid for her to came to our country and from there he took her with him to were he works. She stayed with him for six weeks.It even went so far that he ask her to marry him and to get pregnant with his child and still there was no action for divorce.The girl emailed me and told me everything and wanted to send the ring to me so that I can give it to him when he came home. He ended the relationship and said that he wants to come back it was in October. So December he came home took me and the children on a holiday and we thought every is going to be okay. But then I was trying to get the girlfriend back and invited her and her parents to the same place he took me and the children for holiday. They didn't come because I told her we are still married and she told me he told her we are divorced for over a year. But he kept on pushing me to go and file for divorce, witch I didn't. He went back to the country where he works and me and the kids thought every is fine. Two weeks later he wants to divorce again. So again the woman contact me and told me that my husband sent her flowers and gifts and he doesn't want to leave her alone and she doesn't want anything to do with him. Eventually he was here about a month ago and went to file for divorce. The same evening that he went to file for divorce I caught him on the internet busy chatting to her and tells her o the divorce. As far as I know they are not back together. But we are still getting a divorce not because I want to but because he wants to. He didn't want me to get my own lawyer but I did and he his very angry about it. For a week now he sends me sms's asking what we are doing but in the evenings he will send me sms's or phone me and tell me that it is my fault and everything that is wrong with me. And he even tells me that he doesn't know how he will financially care for a woman if he want's to get married again. Before that he didn't contacted me only if he wanted me to do stuff for him. He has become a person that I don't know and he is telling me he wants to kill himself. I realy don't know what to do. He still wants the divorce which I told him I will give to him because he wants to go and find his happiness because he is not happy with his career with our marriage and he doesn't know who he is anymore. He wants to go and found himself. Our daughter doesn 't want to speak to him and now he told me that I am the reason for it. I don't know what is going on with him. I don't want to divorce him. We are together for 23years and married for 22 years. I love him and don't want to lose him but I guess I already have. He is already telling people that he is homeless and single and it is on a forum where a lot of people who knows me can see it. I really want to know what you are thinking about all of this.
My husband had his second affair with a woman 10 years younger than me and 18 years younger than him. At first he said he want a divorce but he didn't took any action. He work over sea's and we see him every 3 months. If it was possible me and he kids went to visit him over school holidays. Any way he came for a visit and said he is going to visit his brother but he is going on his own. He came back from his holiday that was suppose to be one week and end up 2 weeks. He went back to work and I found a picture of him and the girl in the car. And so the whole thing started. She lives in another country and he paid for her to came to our country and from there he took her with him to were he works. She stayed with him for six weeks.It even went so far that he ask her to marry him and to get pregnant with his child and still there was no action for divorce.The girl emailed me and told me everything and wanted to send the ring to me so that I can give it to him when he came home. He ended the relationship and said that he wants to come back it was in October. So December he came home took me and the children on a holiday and we thought every is going to be okay. But then I was trying to get the girlfriend back and invited her and her parents to the same place he took me and the children for holiday. They didn't come because I told her we are still married and she told me he told her we are divorced for over a year. But he kept on pushing me to go and file for divorce, witch I didn't. He went back to the country where he works and me and the kids thought every is fine. Two weeks later he wants to divorce again. So again the woman contact me and told me that my husband sent her flowers and gifts and he doesn't want to leave her alone and she doesn't want anything to do with him. Eventually he was here about a month ago and went to file for divorce. The same evening that he went to file for divorce I caught him on the internet busy chatting to her and tells her o the divorce. As far as I know they are not back together. But we are still getting a divorce not because I want to but because he wants to. He didn't want me to get my own lawyer but I did and he his very angry about it. For a week now he sends me sms's asking what we are doing but in the evenings he will send me sms's or phone me and tell me that it is my fault and everything that is wrong with me. And he even tells me that he doesn't know how he will financially care for a woman if he want's to get married again. Before that he didn't contacted me only if he wanted me to do stuff for him. He has become a person that I don't know and he is telling me he wants to kill himself. I realy don't know what to do. He still wants the divorce which I told him I will give to him because he wants to go and find his happiness because he is not happy with his career with our marriage and he doesn't know who he is anymore. He wants to go and found himself. Our daughter doesn 't want to speak to him and now he told me that I am the reason for it. I don't know what is going on with him. I don't want to divorce him. We are together for 23years and married for 22 years. I love him and don't want to lose him but I guess I already have. He is already telling people that he is homeless and single and it is on a forum where a lot of people who knows me can see it. I really want to know what you are thinking about all of this.
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