Been married 19 years and the sex life really got good again a couple years ago. I am 43 and she is 41.
She is LD, and hates to talk about sex, so I usually just try stuff and sometimes it sticks. I noticed one night on giving her an erotic massage I was fingering her and I kept adding fingers. I couldn't believe how much she was taking but she was loving it and eventually had a small vaginal orgasm which is rare (she is clitoral).
She doesn't like to admit such things but she admitted liking this. I told her I had 4 fingers in there and she looked at me like don't tell me that. So...like I said, she doesn't like to talk about it. :)
I have kidded around about a large dildo. She usually laughs but sometimes looks interested. She took advantage of my birthday by saying, "if you really want to use one on me, you can." BTW - I am above average. I don't think she would have ever considered until realizing the "stretch" I gave her with my hands felt so good. Plus, she has become more vaginal in the past year and even squirting.
So, on my birthday I used a large dildo and she couldn't hide the moans. She was already really aroused or it would have not fit. She plateaued for a long time and didn't have a big orgasm.
The next day, I couldn't help it. We were talking about our good time and I said, "you can't tell me you didn't like it with those pleasurable moans." She just looked at me and said, "It felt really good." Although, I know she will never ask for it herself because she is programmed to protect my ego. She did like the fact that I told her we have been married too long and I enjoyed seeing her gain a new pleasure.
In a good marriage, does anyone see anything negative about keeping a big dildo as part of your novelty list?
PS. I will never believe a woman again when she says bigger is not more pleasurable. I think that it's all relative too. I think if mine was that big, she would get used to it. It's always about "just a little bigger" than you are used to. In my opinion.
She is LD, and hates to talk about sex, so I usually just try stuff and sometimes it sticks. I noticed one night on giving her an erotic massage I was fingering her and I kept adding fingers. I couldn't believe how much she was taking but she was loving it and eventually had a small vaginal orgasm which is rare (she is clitoral).
She doesn't like to admit such things but she admitted liking this. I told her I had 4 fingers in there and she looked at me like don't tell me that. So...like I said, she doesn't like to talk about it. :)
I have kidded around about a large dildo. She usually laughs but sometimes looks interested. She took advantage of my birthday by saying, "if you really want to use one on me, you can." BTW - I am above average. I don't think she would have ever considered until realizing the "stretch" I gave her with my hands felt so good. Plus, she has become more vaginal in the past year and even squirting.
So, on my birthday I used a large dildo and she couldn't hide the moans. She was already really aroused or it would have not fit. She plateaued for a long time and didn't have a big orgasm.
The next day, I couldn't help it. We were talking about our good time and I said, "you can't tell me you didn't like it with those pleasurable moans." She just looked at me and said, "It felt really good." Although, I know she will never ask for it herself because she is programmed to protect my ego. She did like the fact that I told her we have been married too long and I enjoyed seeing her gain a new pleasure.
In a good marriage, does anyone see anything negative about keeping a big dildo as part of your novelty list?
PS. I will never believe a woman again when she says bigger is not more pleasurable. I think that it's all relative too. I think if mine was that big, she would get used to it. It's always about "just a little bigger" than you are used to. In my opinion.
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