My friend's girlfriend had a house party for her birthday. As soon as I walked in, I put my drink's in my friend's girlfriends room and when I went up there she told me her coursemate really liked me.
20 minutes later she came up to me asking to 'sponsor' her for a run. Then i started chatting to her and she said she made up the sponsor thing it was just to get us talking.
Go home and add her on facebook as I didn't have a phone. Week later organise a date to a cocktail bar. Date goes really well and I get a long kiss and held hands on the walk back. My friend got inside information from his girlfriend saying the girl I went on the date with really liked me.
Organise a second date a week and a half later. I said dinner but she said film round mine. NOTHING HAPPENED I didn't get a kiss, barely cuddled. Just a hug at the door. We went BACKWARDS. We watched the film on my laptop so had it on my lap and therefore couldn't cuddle up to her.
Organise a third date 2 days later. Another film. This time before the date I was thinking 'I've got to make a move'. I pussyed out again. I was waiting for the right time like if we were looking into each other's eyes or facing each other. But I had the same problem with the laptop. I deliberately placed it more on her lap so I could turn my body to face her and cuddle up to her. It was a bit more cuddly but we never kissed. At the door I hugged her again.
Have I messed it up with her? Is she frijid or shy? Because I tried to give her hints by getting closer to her on the third date but she didn't do it much back (perhaps cause the laptop was on her lap). Am I just not manly enough for going for the kiss (I didn't randomly want to do it when 'the time wasn't right' and just completely unexpectedly). I can only see us kissing again (like on the 1st date) or getting more 'touchy feely' when we are both drunk on a night out.
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