I have been married for almost 9 years and have two kids with my husband. In the beginning, our relationship was good. We talked about everything, went out, had friends over all the time, and our sex life was great. After I had my first daughter, I suddenly felt abandoned and on my own. After I had my second daughter, I felt even worse. The reason for this is because he seems to have no patience for his own kids or me. Another reason is that he pays no attention to me unless he wants sex. He won't communicate with me, we never do anything together anymore, always forgets my birthday, never buys me gifts, spends little to no time with me, it feels like I'm a single mom living with a roommate and not a husband. When he's not working, he's laying on the couch watching tv or socializing with his friends. I have lost all emotional connections with him which makes sex something I avoid doing because I just don't feel the connection. Even when we do have sex, I can't wait to get it over with. I will be honest that this happens only once a month and now he is telling me that he will find someone else if I don't fulfill his needs. I just don't know what to do..I've tried telling him that I don't feel loved, that we have grown distant but he doesn't seem to see the problem or just doesn't want to. I have considered leaving him, but literally have nowhere to go nor anyone to help me. I'm a stay at home mom with no job and just really desperate for a change in my marriage..I feel like I'm going to lost my mind very soon..any advice is welcome...
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