Sorry if the title didn't make much sense, there wasn't enough space for me to type it properly.
I went to secondary school where I was moderately bullied. I say moderately as it's not as bad as some people are, but it was still bullying to the effect that teachers/ parents got involved. I hated secondary school and would happily never go back or meet anyone from that school again- even the people who should have been friends.
So I moved out of school and went through college, and got a job. I thought all of the bullying had stopped now and my confidence was beginning to grow. People were actually speaking to me like a normal person and I was making friends one step at a time.
I am on an apprenticeship so have to attend college once a week. There is one person in my class who is starting to bullying me. It started as a joke type thing but it's slowly developing. They are constantly just shouting swear words at me whenever I speak. They aren't particularly intelligent and they are only doing it to get a reaction from others.
I am starting to feel like I did back in secondary school. I hate to say it but I occasionally wonder what I am even doing on this earth. If multiple people can't treat me respectfully then there must be something wrong with me. This person doesn't know anything about my secondary school experience so it must be something with me to attract multiple unrelated people to start bullying me.
I think he is still only doing it as 'banter' and to get a reaction from other people but he doesn't realise how much he is doing it. Every time I speak, he's shouting swear words at me. I want to nip this in the bud but I can't confront him as he is the type of person who will tell people that 'so and so thinks I'm bullying him what a £&%^'
How would you deal with this person? I can't move college class or move away from him.
Put the internet to work for you.
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