Advise on how to handle a BPD wife

Wife is BPD ,

refused consultancy even when it is a deal breaker.

when cornered she said , you can go to another women if you want : victimizing herself .

I have red So many books about normal relations : his needs her need, articles, Men are from Mars ....

Any advise how to handle a BPD ?

-The first two hints I learned the hard way :

1)- never critisize or compare myself to her ideals ( parents, friends, relatives, etc... : they are untouchable .

2)-Never argue with logic ; to win approach her with feelings .

any other suggestions ?

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