This sums up my post divorce life. I struggle all the time with being consistent and I feel its ruining me.
With my children I will tell them, for example, if you do this one more time then such and such will happen, but I dont follow up. I think it is because I feel guilty about the lack of time I have with them, I dont want them to be unhappy with me. My gf sees it all the time and tells me about it.
Also I struggle with money. Im tight with money because of the situation. I tell my kids I cant get them brand name stuff or all this extra stuff but when the rubber hits the road I dont stand my ground.
I need to be better. Its affecting my relationship with my kids and girlfriend.
Anyone have suggestions?
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With my children I will tell them, for example, if you do this one more time then such and such will happen, but I dont follow up. I think it is because I feel guilty about the lack of time I have with them, I dont want them to be unhappy with me. My gf sees it all the time and tells me about it.
Also I struggle with money. Im tight with money because of the situation. I tell my kids I cant get them brand name stuff or all this extra stuff but when the rubber hits the road I dont stand my ground.
I need to be better. Its affecting my relationship with my kids and girlfriend.
Anyone have suggestions?
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