Long story short, my marriage is in ruin and we are looking to make it work.
We were married a year ago, and things went the same as it always did for 6 months.
6 months after the wedding I was told that she does not love me anymore, and the numerous reasons why.
Most prominent of all, I'm suffering from "Nice Guy Syndrome" which I never heard of before that.
Needy, etc.
She wanted to leave me, but then we agreed to try and make it work again.
Problem is that she bottles up extremely, and never talks whats bothering her.
I have been in hell however since this day, constantly worrying if she still loves me.
Constantly worrying about making her happy, worrying that I'm unable to. That I might lose her. That I'm not good enough.
The household had turned into an emotional battlefield, consisting of finger pointing for issues like "you are depressed/distant/secretive, and it is making us depressed.
Each time the above happens, there will be a session where we speak about it and make us both massively depressed.
Never any proper communication, only accusations. And it's making us both miserable.
We do not have cash to go and see counselors, and there aren't any freebies about.
We need serious help, and I thought that maybe a few techniques which I can pick up on the internet might help us out.
We are determined to make this work, but just don't know how.
We were married a year ago, and things went the same as it always did for 6 months.
6 months after the wedding I was told that she does not love me anymore, and the numerous reasons why.
Most prominent of all, I'm suffering from "Nice Guy Syndrome" which I never heard of before that.
Needy, etc.
She wanted to leave me, but then we agreed to try and make it work again.
Problem is that she bottles up extremely, and never talks whats bothering her.
I have been in hell however since this day, constantly worrying if she still loves me.
Constantly worrying about making her happy, worrying that I'm unable to. That I might lose her. That I'm not good enough.
The household had turned into an emotional battlefield, consisting of finger pointing for issues like "you are depressed/distant/secretive, and it is making us depressed.
Each time the above happens, there will be a session where we speak about it and make us both massively depressed.
Never any proper communication, only accusations. And it's making us both miserable.
We do not have cash to go and see counselors, and there aren't any freebies about.
We need serious help, and I thought that maybe a few techniques which I can pick up on the internet might help us out.
We are determined to make this work, but just don't know how.
Put the internet to work for you.
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