I had this on another thread, but I figured it would be more productive to start a new thread about this since it's a different issue.
Something that H did really concerned me yesterday. There's this girl who he's been friends with a long time, and she told him one day that he loved him deeply (claimed it was as a friend) so I asked him to stop talking to her and he agreed. The other day I saw that she had wrote on his FB wall and shared an inside joke of theirs and he literally commented back "Hahhahahhahahahahahahahahaha lmbo lollolololoolololol". I asked him, "So you're best friends with her now?" He said "no" and got REALLY REALLY SUPER upset and put his earphones in to ignore me despite me still talking. Didn't even say he didn't want to talk about it, just put in his headphones to ignore me. It REALLY hurt me. He knows how much him ignoring me hurts. Anyway, when I asked him to talk to me again, explaining why I didn't want him talking to her, he said "See? This is why I don't like you to see stuff like that. You overreact." I responded, "You hide things from me?" He was like "no..." and I showed a lot of suspicion, and he changed his act VERY quickly. Went and did a huge pile of dirty dishes when he has not done ONE dish since we got married, since he claims it's my job. Then tried to start a water fight with me & was acting very sweet.
His behavior is making me suspicious. It's my birthday, he knows it, did not say anything about it when he left for work, will not text me back or answer my calls. I really feel like he's hiding something from me.
Am I just being paranoid?
Something that H did really concerned me yesterday. There's this girl who he's been friends with a long time, and she told him one day that he loved him deeply (claimed it was as a friend) so I asked him to stop talking to her and he agreed. The other day I saw that she had wrote on his FB wall and shared an inside joke of theirs and he literally commented back "Hahhahahhahahahahahahahahaha lmbo lollolololoolololol". I asked him, "So you're best friends with her now?" He said "no" and got REALLY REALLY SUPER upset and put his earphones in to ignore me despite me still talking. Didn't even say he didn't want to talk about it, just put in his headphones to ignore me. It REALLY hurt me. He knows how much him ignoring me hurts. Anyway, when I asked him to talk to me again, explaining why I didn't want him talking to her, he said "See? This is why I don't like you to see stuff like that. You overreact." I responded, "You hide things from me?" He was like "no..." and I showed a lot of suspicion, and he changed his act VERY quickly. Went and did a huge pile of dirty dishes when he has not done ONE dish since we got married, since he claims it's my job. Then tried to start a water fight with me & was acting very sweet.
His behavior is making me suspicious. It's my birthday, he knows it, did not say anything about it when he left for work, will not text me back or answer my calls. I really feel like he's hiding something from me.
Am I just being paranoid?
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