Hey everyone need to know what to do. Or more appropriately best way to deal with it. First things first. My wife and i have had some issues in the past in the bedroom all couples go through it, it is what it is.
Well about a year ago i started to develop some ED issues, and after not being able to take it anymore went to visit my family dr where after a few tests it was determined that i had diabetes and that was the most likely culprit of the ED issues, so bad that nothing would bring the soldier to attention.Dr says if i get my sugar under control a good chance since im young (32) the ed problems will reverse. And luckily they are SLOWLY. However the one thing that does remain is a PE problem i have had for a long time. Not sure if it is related to diabetes not sure how long i have had it.
So that is the background. For the past few years i have felt like i have to beg for any sort of sexual contact, If i don't initiate it, it don't happen. Well It all came to a head the other night when i decided to show my wife the "mojo survey" thinking maybe she was just board in bed. so we did it and afterward we were going over the results and she looks at me and says that's great, but i don't enjoy having sex with you. Now that's a crush to me. Because i know im not the longest lasting guy in bed but i try to make up for it in other way's and always try to make sure she is (so i thought) satisfied weather orally or some other manner.
So I was crushed and pretty pissed off at the comment and let it go so fast forward a few nights i tell her i'm in the mood and heading to bed and ask her to join me. She comes to bed and flops in like she is pissed off, so i say "just forget it" and go to bed. well im laying there and just getting more and more angry. So i decide the couch is the better place for me to sleep (not uncommon for me to sleep on the couch) and as i leave the room i tell her "Just once in the last 2 years i wish you would initiate sex"
so that was the last of it.
Any advice from anyone would be helpful. I Truly love my wife, Leaving her or Cheating on her is not an option. However a sexless marriage is not what i signed up for. Please i would love any advice anyone can give me.
-LovesHisWife
Well about a year ago i started to develop some ED issues, and after not being able to take it anymore went to visit my family dr where after a few tests it was determined that i had diabetes and that was the most likely culprit of the ED issues, so bad that nothing would bring the soldier to attention.Dr says if i get my sugar under control a good chance since im young (32) the ed problems will reverse. And luckily they are SLOWLY. However the one thing that does remain is a PE problem i have had for a long time. Not sure if it is related to diabetes not sure how long i have had it.
So that is the background. For the past few years i have felt like i have to beg for any sort of sexual contact, If i don't initiate it, it don't happen. Well It all came to a head the other night when i decided to show my wife the "mojo survey" thinking maybe she was just board in bed. so we did it and afterward we were going over the results and she looks at me and says that's great, but i don't enjoy having sex with you. Now that's a crush to me. Because i know im not the longest lasting guy in bed but i try to make up for it in other way's and always try to make sure she is (so i thought) satisfied weather orally or some other manner.
So I was crushed and pretty pissed off at the comment and let it go so fast forward a few nights i tell her i'm in the mood and heading to bed and ask her to join me. She comes to bed and flops in like she is pissed off, so i say "just forget it" and go to bed. well im laying there and just getting more and more angry. So i decide the couch is the better place for me to sleep (not uncommon for me to sleep on the couch) and as i leave the room i tell her "Just once in the last 2 years i wish you would initiate sex"
so that was the last of it.
Any advice from anyone would be helpful. I Truly love my wife, Leaving her or Cheating on her is not an option. However a sexless marriage is not what i signed up for. Please i would love any advice anyone can give me.
-LovesHisWife
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